The holiday season brings a unique blend of excitement, nostalgia, and the desire for connection. With more people turning to dating apps during November and December, online dating activity spikes dramatically. While this creates opportunities to meet someone special, it also increases the risk of scams, misrepresentation, and unsafe encounters. Staying vigilant is essential. Here are 10 online dating safety tips for the holidays to help you enjoy the season without compromising your well‑being.
- Trust your instincts. If something feels off—even slightly—pay attention. Your intuition is often your first line of defense.
- Protect your personal information. Avoid sharing your home address, workplace, children’s details, or travel plans until you’ve built genuine trust.
- Verify their identity early. A quick video call can confirm that the person you’re talking to matches their photos and profile
- Be cautious with holiday emotions. Scammers often exploit loneliness or generosity during the holidays. Never send money, gift cards, or financial help to someone you haven’t met.
- Meet in public places. Choose well‑lit, busy locations for first dates. Avoid secluded areas or private residences.
- Tell someone your plans. Share your date’s name, meeting location, and expected return time with a trusted friend or family member.
- Arrange your own transportation. Driving yourself or using a rideshare gives you control over when you arrive and leave.
- Limit alcohol. Holiday cocktails are tempting, but staying alert helps you make safer decisions.
- Watch for inconsistencies. If their stories change or details don’t add up, take it seriously. Dishonesty early on is a major red flag.
- Consider a background check. When in doubt, verify. Many people misrepresent their relationship status, criminal history, or identity online.
Online dating safety is important, especially during the festive season and safety should always come first. If you’re unsure about someone you’ve met online or want peace of mind before meeting in person, ASG Investigations offers discreet, professional online dating background checks. Protect yourself this holiday season by contacting ASG Investigations for trusted verification and investigative support.